Virtual Life - VS - REAL LIFE !

 

      To many lessons learned...  They say, if you don't want something coming back to bite you in your ass, DON'T PUT IT OUT THERE TO BEGIN WITH !  Especially if your "Special Someone" may come across it later.  BUSTED !!!!  Well...  

      Sometimes in life, you just have to be "REAL" !  You know, today's technology is truly a wonderful thing.  However, what can you do when your intentions are good but the results are the complete opposite ?  There have been times where our "SINGLE" lives have later come back to bite us when we are "Coupled".  When you are single, you need not worry about anyone other than yourself, right ?  However...  When you finally find a mate here in today's world, things can sometimes become unnecessarily complicated, due to hurt feelings and jealousy involving past lives and experiences.  However, it's just that : The Past !  So leave it there.  It was all before your current chosen mate came into your present life.  Therefore, it's completely meaningless "NOW".  Get over it and move on with your present and future life.  Living in the past or being upset over it will change nothing.  All it does is delay or derail your intended present and future progress. 

  

      Case and point...  Your past Virtual / Online / Cyber life could quite possibly create many obstacles and hurt feelings with your current partner.  Here's a rule of thumb : If you are about to enter into a relationship or thinking of becoming attached to another person, : "STOP" !  THINK...  This is a good time to think about 3 things...  

1. Is this person the right one or is this person really worth ME ?  

2. If he / she is the right one and you feel strong about the person with TRUST : IMMEDIATELY start cleaning up all your SHIT !  

3. ONCE your "Respectful" clean-up job is done (COMPLETELY), then sit your potential partner down immediately and have a very open, straight forward discussion and air things out privately between the both of you.  

      It's better to just tackle this situation early on, right from the start rather than having it come back to bite you (both) later on.  Even worse, having your NEW Partner hear things from other sources that are less than 100% credible, where it can become something greater than what it really was to begin with.  Now, THAT's a REAL mess to clean up.  Especially when it could have been avoided right from the beginning altogether.  Don't allow your online virtual life to become a SCREAMING PAIN !  

Smurfette : STOP LAUGHING...!

      So remember, if you have a long standing online life, just be careful what you put out there.  You just may need to clean it all up later (Guilty as charged , by the way) !  One Last piece of advice...  Be careful with all those Online Dating sites out there.  If you are lucky enough to actually meet someone from an online dating site, here is wisdom : You may have met "Online", but live your life and relationship "Offline".  Trust that you will be MUCH HAPPIER !  Just because you met online does NOT mean that you should live the same way.  After all, The whole point of meeting someone, is so that you BOTH can live a REAL LIFE Together OFFLINE in REAL LIFE completely, right !

Limit your computer access and rebuild your Human Progress !  

Live your Dreams and ALWAYS : Reach for The Stars...  

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