I once did a blog entry entitled "MARRIAGE". In this entry, I actually aired my very strong and negative views on marriage its self. Well, life is so short and I have had quite a change of heart on this sensitive subject matter since then...
The fact is... All of my life, up until the recent past (as I have re-entered the dating scene), I was bitter, full of fear and very mistrusting (being more Realistic than Optimistic)... I have witnessed so many broken and tough marriages in my lifetime. I myself have had my own woes and growing pains... It was a combination of things that lead me to have a lifelong negative view of Marriage. I recently have taken another look at this subject matter with a whole new outlook...
I now believe that 2 people really need to seriously take a hard look at each other "BEFORE" entering into such a serious commitment. Not that you shouldn't... It's just that, people these days always RUSH into such a serious life long agreement without truly evaluation the level of loyalty, devotion and commitment involved. I myself have done many YouTube videos on "Dating". I myself know how important it is to evaluate a potential partner in life. You really have to know exactly what you want (and equally what you don't) and realize that marriage its self is all about : COMPROMISE ! Until you realize that fact, I would not advise anyone to enter into any binding agreement.
Having said that... I now officially retract my old negative statements about marriage. I in fact "DO" want to get married in the future. I know that it will NOT be easy but I am certainly willing to take that chance. I want happiness shared with someone special. Whom ever that is will remain to be seen in the future...? Here are 2 things that I "DO" know : 1. I know what I want in a potential future wife. I know "WHO" I am looking for... 2. I am willing to compromise (that is what marriage is all about, right?). There is NO such thing as perfection, However... I ACTUALLY Have a "List of Wife Qualifications". I'm NOT kidding on that... I hope to someday have a "Traditional" Church wedding and a future wife who shares my views and values on family, life and togetherness. I "AM" looking for "HER". Where is she ? I know that "She" is out there somewhere. I "AM" looking for "HER"...
AGAIN, I ASK : WHERE IS SHE ?
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