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Sunday, October 21, 2018

Decisions...

      There are some things you can control and avoid in life and some things you just can't and can't foresee as well.  In life, I have learned (the HARD way), that each and EVERY decision you make and EVERY action you take will have a consequence and a ripple effect on the rest of your entire lifetime.  Even the smallest of decisions.  

      Decisions decisions decisions...  When you make a decision, no matter how small it is or may seem, the ripple effect it can have on your life could end up being catastrophic !  This is something that I have learned first hand myself.  In the past, there were things that I knew and felt was wrong or not right in my life.  In some situations, I was bound by things that were beyond my control.  Other things, I didn't care about or thought was small and meaningless.  Oh, how wrong I was...  There are always choices in life.  Even if you can't see it or it's not obvious.  In most cases, it is obvious, you are just blind to the facts at the time.  You will eventually see everything clearly at a later time, however... (when it's too late).

      If I could turn back the hands of time to just 1 specific time... : June 23rd, 1991 !  Just by doing 1 thing as simple as CROSSING THE STREET on a certain particular morning could have changed my ENTIRE LIFETIME.  I couldn't see it then, but now... OMG !  My message to you in this blog entry are 2 things... 

1. Always THINK "SLOW and CAREFULLY".  NEVER EVER make fast rushed decisions or just "Go with the flow".  That could have ripple effects that will change the course of your entire life !  (TRUST ME ON THAT)  Take control, think slow and choose WISELY ! 

2. Be careful of what you wish for...  SERIOUSLY !   I will leave that as it is... 

           
Michelle, Victoria and Brandon 

Friday, October 19th, 2018
This is all that is left of the ONCE STRONG 
"FOX FAMILY" that I built and once knew...  Now I have to fight to get Victoria back (Middle).

      January 2015, 1 fatal decision changed EVERYTHING I once knew.  It was a decision that I had to make, even though I realized the consequences it would carry.  Little did I know that it would be 1,000 times worse...
R.I.P : Deloris "Chipmunk" Fox
August 15, 1966 - February 19, 2018
(Breast Cancer)

      Decisions...  Just 1 wrong decision can have effects and results that you could have NEVER IMAGINED...  I can't tell the whole story here in this blog entry, but believe me, If I could make changes, I WOULD !  However, we can't go back...  We can only learn from our "Growing Pains" in life and strive to do better in the future and be stronger !  Never take "ANY" decision lightly...  You just never know what could happen or result from a fast and bad decision that seems like "no BIG deal" at the time.  

      1 last thing...  Always put your FAMILY first.  NOT your friends, NOT your neighbors, NOT your co-workers or anyone else.  Always remember, once your family members are gone...  THEY'RE GONE !  If you can, TRY to reach out to them.  Some situations are difficult, I know but just try.  Life is just too short for the selfish bullshit that means nothing in the end.  Remember these words...  Make necessary changes and efforts while you can.  Once the ship sails, it's too late !  You can't change other people but you CAN CONTROL YOUR OWN ACTIONS and DECISIONS !  Don't live and die with unnecessary regrets.  UN-Necessary means it didn't have to be that way...  Decisions !   

Live your Dreams and ALWAYS : Reach for The Stars...  

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